UK Retreats

Deep Listening - August 6th - 9th (3 nights), in Noddfa, Penmaenmawr, North Wales

FULLY BOOKED, please ask to be put on the waiting list if you're interested in joining us.

Deep Listening - March 4th - 6th (2 nights) in the Peak District

£319 solo ensuite, £289 solo shared bathroom

Facilitated by Kim Bennett.

After the year we've had, this is an invitation to deeply listen to what it is that we need and want for ourselves. A time to take stock, recalibrate and uncover the direction that our inner satnav is taking us.

We'll create an environment of stillness to facilitate that, as well as making time for some self compassion and honing our skills of deep listening to others. Let's discover what it means to truly listen to ourselves without demands, or threats, or the push me, pull me habitual ways of thinking that guide so many of our decisions. Let's feel into the privilege of truly listening to another without needing to fix them or make them happy or give them solutions and in that way we also expand the ability to do the same for ourselves.

In North Wales there is some lovely walking and the beach on the doorstep. Plenty of grounds to enjoy and nature to soothe the soul. Hope to see you there! All rooms are for solo occupancy with shared bathrooms (max two to a bathroom).

In the Peak District we're in a quiet spot in Great Hucklow that also has lovely walking, and there is a choice of ensuite or shared bathrooms.

As with all Serenity Retreat breaks, how much you choose to participate is entirely up to you. Deep listening to what it is that truly works for YOU in the moment.

What's Included?

The price includes:

• 3 nights accommodation (3 nights) in Wales, 2 nights accommodation in the Peak Districit
• All meals
• All guidance/teaching
• Private chats, if you'd like

What to Bring

• Walking Shoes/Boots if you plan to wander a bit
• Clothing appropriate to UK seasonal weather
• Anything at all that you intuit you'd like to bring: journal, knitting, drawing etc

If this is feeling like something you'd like to do you can use this booking form. A deposit of £50 will save your place.

New Year - Self Compassion and Some Silence

30th Dec - 2nd Jan (We normally sell out by September!)

Facilitated by Kim Bennett.

What to Expect

There will be a timetable that includes periods of sitting, mindful walking, mindfulness movement and periods of Doing Nothing. There will be a self-compassion based talk each evening. If you want to bring a book, or some drawing, or some writing - please do. Our focus is on opening up to the silence. We'll stress that there is no obligation AT ALL to follow the timetable. Instead, we'll encourage you to tune in to what your body needs: feeling tired? Rest. Feeling hungry? Snack. Need to move? Go walking. Don't feel that you have to follow our timetable. It's there if you feel that you want to do it, but it's not compulsory by any means. The most important thing is that you commit to the silence on New Year's Day! Other than that, you are very welcome to do as you choose.

What's the Big Deal about Silence?

Someone asked me (Kim) this a few weeks ago. I answered as best I could at the time but thought that it was a great question. Why would we voluntarily become silent? What is the point? Many of us live alone and are silent a lot anyway, why would we choose to expose ourselves to more, when we could have the opportunity to be making new friends and socialising?

I’m pretty sure you all have your own reasons for turning up and entering the silence, so what I’m about to say speaks only for me. Maybe it’ll resonate, maybe not ;)

My friend, Janine, announced she was doing a silent retreat some years ago. I remember being horrified - you can’t speak?! Or read?! Or write?! But I was also at a point when I was questioning a lot of what my mind was telling me. So I turned it around - what was so terrible about not being able to speak or read or write? And it’s then I realised that I was terrified of what might turn up if I was left alone with my own head. I thought that Pandora’s box might be opened, a huge can of worms that I would be unable to put the lid back on. That wasn't my experience. In fact I realised that my fear of looking within was keeping me trapped in all sorts of subtle ways.

During our time together we WILL have the possibility of reading, writing, drawing etc. We welcome this simply because we don’t need to create extra stress for ourselves when we first meet silence. You’re welcome to read and write and draw - but we can be very interested in the moment BEFORE we pick up the book, the journal, the drawing etc. Why do we feel the need to distract ourselves? Is something going on that feels uncomfortable? Can we possibly sit with that feeling and turn our minds towards it? Even for 2 seconds? After we’ve turned towards the feeling that’s going on for us, we may find that we’re quite curious about what’s going on and want to investigate further. Or we may decide that we absolutely DO want to distract ourselves and that’s perfectly fine. The thing is to have some curiosity about the whole thing. We call this ‘friendly curiosity’.

If we decide to investigate the bodily experience, then our intention isn’t to work anything out or get to the bottom of anything or analyse it, although we may have some insights in that direction, our intention is simply to give our bodies the gift of our 100% complete attention in this moment of discomfort or whatever it is that we have going on for us. In the West we have become very used to moving away from discomfort as we’re told over and over again (by the media and society) that we shouldn’t have to experience any unpleasantness and that if we do (and this message can be quite subtle) then we are in some way ‘failing’. This is not true. We are simply living.

But I can tell you that until I’m blue in the face. The only way to see if this is true is to come and find out for yourself....

This is a great way to introduce yourself to the practice of silence. Especially suitable for those who have never experienced a silent retreat before. It's not as intense as a full on Buddhist retreat but still retains the magic that silence can bring. It's such a great way to start the year!

What's Included

The price includes:

• 3 nights' single accommodation
• All meals
• All guidance/teaching for sitting, walking, standing and Loving Kindness meditation practices
• Periods of Doing Nothing
• Guided Mindfulness Movement
• Guided Mindful Walking

What to Bring

• Walking Shoes/Boots if you plan to wander a bit
• Journal or Notebook and Pen
• Book to read (not obligatory - just if you feel you’d like to)
• Mindful Colouring Books and Pens - although we'll have a small supply (once again, not obligatory - just if this is your thing)
• Clothing appropriate to UK seasonal weather!
• An open and questioning mind
  
  
If this is feeling like something you'd like to do you can use this booking form. A deposit of £50 will save your place.

Embracing Silence: To be confirmed

Facilitated by Kim Bennett

I've been running retreats for some years now and the time has come to reintroduce largely silent retreats, it seems!

There is such a difference between being silent on our own and being silent intentionally and with a community. It can be incredibly restful and transformative. When we learn to be silent in this way then waiting at airports, standing in a queue, waiting in traffic becomes a walk in the park :) Our long weekend will include lots of silence with guidance each morning and evening in the form of short talks and guided meditations. There will also be opportunities for silent meditation, discussion and lots of periods of Doing Nothing/Nothing Scheduled - your chance to do whatever takes your fancy in the moment. As with all Serenity Retreat breaks and holidays, nothing is compulsory. The world may seem chaotic but we always have the opportunity to embrace the silence within and rest. Everyone is very welcome regardless of experience of meditation or retreats.

We strongly recommend that you leave the world of fiction and tv behind and sink into the experience of 'right here, right now' unadorned by distraction :)

What's Included

The price includes:

• 3 nights accommodation
• All meals
• All guidance/teaching
• Guided Mindfulness Movement
• Guided Mindful Walking
• Private chats, if you'd like

What to Bring

• Walking Shoes/Boots if you plan to wander a bit
• Any creative activity that you enjoy. We'll have a jigsaw to do and some mindful colouring books (once again, not obligatory - just if this is your thing)
• Clothing appropriate to UK seasonal weather!
• An open and questioning mind

If this is feeling like something you'd like to do you can use this booking form. A deposit of £50 will save your place.

Self Compassion and Some Silence

Facilitated by Kim Bennett

'If it feels like a struggle, it's not self compassion' - these are the very wise words I heard during a Mindfulness Based Self Compassion Intensive Retreat that I went on with some of the leaders in this field, Kristin Neff and Chris Germer. We'll do our best during the weekend to recognise struggle and see if we can move towards something much softer and inherently kinder.

This weekend will keep Serenity Retreat's ethos of 'do as much or as little as you like' very close to its heart. We'll be encouraging you to spend the weekend really tuning in to what it is you need to do for yourself. Maybe that will be coming along to all the meditations and sessions, maybe that will be to do some of the sessions but also catch up on some sleep (and sleep and sleep) or maybe it will be to wander off into the countryside or to sit quietly somewhere.

There will be meditations focused on how to breathe kindness into ourselves, how to send compassion to others as well as ourselves and the opportunity to create our own wishes for wellness that can lay the ground for a personal Loving Kindness practice. We'll also do some guided visualisations around safety and friendship. Our main intention will be to turn within and become more familiar with our own internal sat nav, the inate wisdom that we carry within - but have forgotten how to trust!

What's Included

The price includes:

• 2 nights accommodation
• All meals
• All guidance/teaching
• Guided Mindfulness Movement
• Guided Mindful Walking
• Private chats, if you'd like

What to Bring

• Walking Shoes/Boots if you plan to wander a bit
• Journal or Notebook and Pen
• Book to read (not obligatory - just if you feel you’d like to)
• Mindful Colouring Books and Pens - although we'll have a small supply (once again, not obligatory - just if this is your thing)
• Clothing appropriate to UK seasonal weather!
• An open and questioning mind

If this is feeling like something you'd like to do you can use this booking form. A deposit of £50 will save your place.